Columbus Soccer Ref

As I wrote my post about my goals and challenges for 2009, it occurred to me that if I made mention of this, I didn’t do so strongly enough.

As referees, we work out and prepare for the season. . .we go to recerification courses and other advanced training. . .and during the season we leave the house for hours at a time - leaving behind our families.  So. . .I think it’s important that we appreciate the sacrifices our families make so we can do this thing we love.  During the season, my wife puts up with my being at the soccer field almost every weekend - and cares for our (now) 2 year-old.  Never take your loved ones for granted - and take every opportunity you can find to let them know how much you appreciate how much they sacrifice for you.

For myself. . .I was thrilled to be selected for Regionals last year, but the hardest part was definitely being away from my wife and my son for a week.  As some of you know, my son has some medical needs (spina bifida).  Normally, a nurse is with him during the day and we take over when we get home from work.  In order for me go to Regionals, it meant that my wife had to adjust her work schedule and coordinate with the nurses - and take care of care of our son (who was 1 at the time) in the evenings pretty much all on her own without much help.  It was a hell of a lot of work - and a big sacrifice on her part - all so I could go to Regionals.  I’m sure some of you read my coverage of 2008 Regionals.  But I don’t think I thanked my wife enough.  Without her sacrifices, it would have been impossible for me to go.

So like I said. . .take every opportunity to thank your loved ones!!!